Frequently
Asked Questions
Q: How do I know I need help?
A: You should seek professional services
once you have tried to resolve your individual, relationship,
and family problems on your own and your solutions have not worked.
Insanity has been defined as using the same solutions which have
not worked and hoping for different results. Or, more simply
said, "We keep doing the same things hoping for different
outcomes." When your old solutions are not working, seek
professional help for new solutions.
Q: How do family therapists differ from
other mental health professionals?
A: Family therapists specialize in treating individual
and family problems by attempting to find solutions that involve the
real world settings in which a person lives -- their home, work and
family settings. Family therapists are regularly called upon when there
are problems in living that involve relationships and families. Individuals
and couples seek out marriage and family
therapy when they have problems in their relationships, with their parenting
skills, with raising children who have emotional or behavioral problems,
and with problems involving their extended families.
Q: Do I have to be married to see a marriage
and family therapist?
A: No, people seek the services of marital therapists
when they have all sorts of problems in living. Marriage
and family therapists specialize in treating individuals and families
when the focus of concern is problems in living that negatively impact
the individual person and their family unit, now matter what kind of
family unit they have. Therapists who specialize in "Licensed Marriage
and Family Therapy" work with problems related to all types of
relationships and families.
Q: What if my spouse or family will not
participate?
A: See a therapist anyhow. When one person
seeks help and starts the change process, the whole family unit
will be affected as well. People seek professional services when
they are ready for a change. Sometimes this change starts only
with those who seek the change directly.
Q: How do marriage and
family therapists work?
A: Marriage and family
therapists initially assess the individual/family to help identify the
presenting problems that have brought them to therapy. Treatment goals
are established and agreed upon. Attempted solutions are reviewed. Interventions
or new solutions are considered and suggested. Family therapists provide
a wide range of treatment approaches that are designed to help families
and individuals make changes.
Q: What qualifications should I look for in a marriage
and family therapist?
A: Choose a person to provide marriage
and family counseling who has special education and expertise in this
area. The State of Texas has designated people with that special education
and training as "Licensed Marriage and Family Therapists."
Q: How do I find or choose a marriage
and family therapist?
A: You can find a licensed marriage and
family therapist by looking through the list
provided on this web site.